Loving someone does not require anything --because when you fall in love, you just fall. When you fall, you cannot pick where you fall.
You. Just. Fall.
You cannot pick where you would land. With whom. In what kind of ground.
There is a reason why it is called 'fall in love'.
Being in love does not take much.
It only takes a courage, and a confidence that you are ready.
When you love someone and you choose someone to be fallen with, you shall be ready.
Love, sometimes is too good to be true.
There is no smooth journey, and prepare yourself for a bumpy road.
I have ever heard this before, that loving someone is like having two sides of coin. You cannot pick to love only one side of it. When you have a coin, you have those two sides --and it does not matter whether you want it or not.
Because you just do.
That is as same as loving someone.
When you love someone, you shall deal with his/her two sides.
First, his/her bad side.
Second, his/her good side.
Surely, it is never a problem to enjoy someone's good side. Enjoy it while it lasts. What matters is the problem when you have to deal with someone's bad side --which is impossible to change.
There is only a slight possibility that someone would change for you. But it is only a tiny possibility.
Because they born with it. They live with it. And meeting you does not change anything.
The only thing that you could do is: deal with that.
Loving someone is like writing down a list of his/her bad sides in a piece of paper. Write it down in points, till you feel like you have done enough.
Caution: don't think that this list would be lessen --because it WOULD not.
That list, that points, will get worsen and worsen and worsen. Let alone getting additional points during times.
Their bad habits would grow bigger and bigger by time.
To find out whether you could love them or not, you could take a deep look to your list and think: can I deal with all of those bad things?
Because when you can, you just can.
And when you cannot, you would never able eventually.
Love would be ended when one party could not deal with his/her bad side anymore.
And the failure to deal would be camouflaged with an excuse.
Let us live our life peacefully.
Because love is not a Disney's movie or cartoon. It is not a drama.
Love is reality.
Love is giving.
Love is dealing.
