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Sunday, July 10, 2016 0

open clothes

By Venty Indah Utami

Yesterday, when I had a gathering with some of my friends, we discussed over an issue which brought us to such a great debate.

About men, women, and rape.
They pinpointed the woman in a sexy clothes as the reason of why a rape is occured.
And guess what?
I am getting really angry because of that.


Call me a feminist.
But yes, I would be very glad to be led into such a discussion with those who called women in the open clothes as an excuse to rape someone.

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(almost) quarter life crisis

By Venty Indah Utami

Tonite, I am gonna write a serious post. Perhaps this post would just be a revelation for those who thought the same too.
I am just having a quarter life crisis.

Well, practically I am not twenty-five yet, but because lots of my friends already got there, it makes me think like one.


In these ages, when you are 20-s, you will be in the middle of a new crisis. Because all you face is a new problem. The problem is not simply what you would have for lunch. Not as simple as what would you do after school hours. Not a curfew. Not a homework.


But your future.




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Thursday, July 7, 2016 0

Eid-l Fitr 1437H

By Venty Indah Utami

Hey, readers. Eid Mubarak!

Actually when I write this, it has already been the second day of Syawal. Yet, the euphoria of Moslem's glorious day is still obviously felt.
The time always passes by when we are having a good time, and it elaborates why Ramadhan has gone only in a blink of an eye.

 Yesterday, as always I had a 'halal bihalal' with all of my families.
If you are curious with what halal bihalal is, it is a moment where your precious ones (could be families, friends, or lovers) gather in one place (usually this habit is only happened in Moslem's special days such as Eid-l Fitri and Eid-l Adha), and celebrate Eid with laughter and good food (and in this occasion the special food will be 'opor ayam').

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Monday, July 4, 2016 0

mellow

By Venty Indah Utami

I know that I am probably quite mellow these days, but I need to be honest about something.

I miss a feeling; a feeling of achievement.
You know, the feeling when you feel very proud of yourself when you successfully earn something. 
I feel these days, I am only doing nothing. I live my life ordinarily, and I feel I waste too much time.
When anyone else gives their best efforts, I am only sitting here watching them pursue their way to the top.

Okay, I know that this would sound really worse, but I feel envy.
I see everyone else is doing okay on their own. They are achieving something. They have something to be proud of.
And I am here, feeling unsatisfied with myself.

Perhaps I am really full of myself, but I feel I am not good enough with what I have right now.
I shall do better.
This is what I told myself everyday.

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