Thursday, May 19, 2016 0

it's okay to be ashamed.

By Venty Indah Utami

Earlier, I had blogwalkings to some of my favourite bloggers (and friends). I see all the contents they had been writing, and all what happened to me is........

ASHAMED.

(yes, I should use all the caps and the bigger fonts.)

Like seriously, I feel so ashamed to compare the contents of my blog with theirs. They wrote all the beautiful things, all the things that could be an inspiration to everyone.

Meanwhile, I am still stuck here with all the negativities (since I used to write sometimes when I feel down or angry --pardon me) or random thoughts (that could be useless sometimes [or every time?]).

I feel really childish if I shall put myself beside them.

Tuesday, May 10, 2016 0

the ugly truth.

By Venty Indah Utami

When you are getting older, your circle will be getting smaller. You will find those people you would be proud to call 'best friends', and those who you would be satisfied only with 'acquaintance'. And you'll be fine with that, because you eventually understand that you do not need everyone to be your friend.

I am not trying to be ironic nor pessimistic, but the fact it really is.

When I was in school, I always found myself love to be surrounded with lots of people. I believe that having a lot of friends is a sign that you successfully earn a good point in socializing with people.